Thanks-in-giving

Here we are, we’ve reached the very American tradition of Thanksgiving, and I find myself reflecting on all the things I'm thankful for, but also admiring those that truly are one of kind in their ability to give without hesitation, to help no matter their circumstances. Those that seem to be the very definition of humility, defined as having a very modest view of their importance, also seemingly the ones that see other's imperfections and choose to love them anyway. Those that offer grace when other's would simply choose to walk away. Those beautiful people who have an impact on everyone in their life, but feel so ordinary. Walking through this world choosing love and kindness, forgiveness and understanding, and a place to land when the world feels heavy. The ones that find thanks in their ability to give.

These are the one of a kind people we know we can count on. They show up when they aren't asked, but know there is a need. They are our first phone call when we are panicked and afraid, because we know, no matter what, they will be there. They pray for you, they hold your hand in times of trouble. They selflessly go without, so you can have. But what makes them even more special, is how they are blind to the fact that they have such a profound impact on the world around them.

Do you ever feel thankful for not only what you have but what you can give? I think this is where we find the truest understanding of what life is. Not what we receive and hold onto, but what we can give to others. There is a sense of gratefulness that comes with giving. A sense of gratitude in our hearts that we carry with us. I often times wonder why that is. I think sometimes it’s seeing the thankfulness of your giving on the faces of others. That warmth that comes when they smile. The sincerest thanks in their eyes. I strive to be one of these people. The one that that shows up, offers encouragement and support, grace and understanding. To just love people, genuinely. Even when it’s hard, even when I don’t have the same views or opinions, even when I don’t know how I could, I still do. I like being the phone call when someone's in need. I like being the light when someone's world feels dark. The kind words when they are needed, the hand that is extended in times of need, and praying for a miracle when hope is being lost.

How special it is to have people like this in our lives. How truly special it is when groups of these people gather together and show up, a community. We see it when tragedy strikes, or for those in need. We see them volunteering, giving their time only because they feel led to give back. Not asking for anything in return, just showing up willing to help and love others. In a world full of ugliness, they just keep being the most beautiful people. I see you. So many people see you and so many people appreciate you.

I encourage you to find the kindness inside to give something back. Pay it forward. Even the most simple of things can have a big impact on someone’s life. A kind word or gesture, a helpful hand when someone’s plate is full, the understanding and grace that someone needs when they aren’t feeling at their best. Or just love, people need to be loved, and that is something we are all capable of giving. This time of year can be hard for so many. Those that struggle financially and wish so much to be able to get or provide something they can’t afford. Those that are grieving the empty seats at the table that were filled with loved ones. Those that just feel empty from the heaviness of life. Step up and be the light in people’s lives when you have the opportunity.

As we gather together this Thanksgiving and we speak of what we’ve been thankful for throughout this year, I believe I’ll be thankful for you, my family and friends, the ones that continue to show up and bring light into my life. I’ll be thankful for the small things, the ability to live a simple life, my health, the roof over my head, and a safe place to sleep. My children are happy and healthy, I could go on and on. I believe most of us can find something to be thankful for. I’ll also continue to give thanks for those that find 'Thanks-in-giving'.